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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 children who are now 1 and 3. I eventually worked up the courage to call the police about the abuse and kicked him out. He has been crying, making appointments with doctors to get his anger under control and is begging me back, even referring to me as his girlfriend still. Guy B stepped into the picture not long after the first one left... he has a criminal record, not for anything domestic related but he went to prison for a while for stealing a car. (There is a story behind it but i just want to make this short).... so anyway, guy B has finished a course, has even talked about marriage in the future and always tells me i am the most beautiful girl on this planet... now.. Guy A knows about Guy B and wants me to "end things" with him so we can get back together. I am not sure if things with Guy B will work out, but I am not too sure I want to trust the first one with his temper problem... What do I do? I feel like I am in this MASSIVE hole and can't get out of it. I love my children's father because he's their dad... but I really like guy B too.. and it's in a different way :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): "I love my children's father because he's their dad..."
And so of course you can be absolutely 100% certain that
your children's father will NEVER beat his children up, NEVER abuse then, and NEVER treat them like dogs like he beat his children's mother up, abused her, and treated her like a dog in front of his children.
I suspect your bio-dad is long gone and out of the picture so you want your kids to know their father and you can all live together and you'll finally have the family just like the one you always wanted and never had, and since your kids will grow up in the presence of their father, then your son(s) will learn how a man should treat a woman from observing his father and learning by example and your daughter(s) will learn how a woman should be treated by a man from observing her father and learning by example.
Please seek counselling for the sake of your children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): Start fresh with a man who won't hit you or end up in prison.
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