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writes:I applied to work in a strip club (I'm female) but the mister who I asked wanted me to "strut my stuff" for him. Is this normal. Do ladies who apply to do what I do (get naked, look sexy and have sex) have to show the "boss" what they do or does he have anything for me? Thank you, regards. Reply to this Question
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (31 July 2012):
Last time I checked working in a strip club didn't require you to have sex with anyone. Any establishment that claims otherwise is just an euphemism for whorehouse.
A classmate of mine worked in a strip club to make ends meet, because it pays well and because she had no problems with showing off her body and dancing sexily. I talked to her about the experience and she said that sometimes there they asked to give a certain client more attention, but she never had sex with anyone who visited that place or worked there.
You better make sure at what kind of establishment you're getting yourself involved with, because if it's shady they are going to prostitute you and trust me, that's not going to do you any favors in the future.
In the audition, don't bare all but keep your underwear on. Show him what you can do in terms of dancing, but don't give him too much of a free show. I repeat, never should sex be involved during an audition of a legit club. If he's trying to manipulate you into it, leave because it all goes down hill from there.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 July 2012):
 I highly doubt you will have to have SEX with anyone, but I can imagine the boss wants to know if you can actually dance, so he would want you to "audition".
That is my guess, I would have no idea though, as I would never set foot in a strip club.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): No. If the boss wants sex with you before giving you job he's a slime. I imagine you would have a general interview to tell the employer what experience you have in a similar role, and what positive things you think you could offer his business, then maybe do an dance audition to show what you are capable of, but to have sex with the boss, that ISN'T necessary for you to do what is in the job description. I would reconsider taking this job if I were you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): I watched a programme about one of the most popular strip clubs here in the u.k and the girls that work there and they all had to strut their stuff to audition for the part, they were asked to keep their knickers on though for the audition
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): Hi,
I would say be careful, it could be just you showing your skills OR that and more. Have you tried speaking to people who have worked as strippers before? Personally, I find that it's the kind of job where things can get out of hand and if you could find another job, you'd be better off. But, the choice is yours. Good luck!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (29 July 2012):
 I highly doubt that you would have to have sex to get into the strip club, but it would be reasonable that the boss would have you give an audition for him. It's much like a chef being asked to cook as part of an interview, a news reporter or a musician required to send in a demo in order to get signed.
Having actual sex would be unreasonable. Giving a strip audition is reasonable. But then again, I don't have actual strip club experience. I've never been in one. heh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): Yeah, they have to know you can sort of dance and look sexy. I tried out and he said I sucked at dancing but beaucse I was an ethnic minority, he let me stay. No joke, they didn't have any black or asian dancers and they were being requested by the clients. I lasted about a month.
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