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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi guys,Me and my girlfriend have a good sex life, but we're a relatively newly formed couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet.I wondered about 'dom/sub' play, 'domination' in the bedroom, and she seemed really into it, I want to try dominating her (soft or light domination).Just wondered if any of you guys dominating or girls enjoying being controlled can give advice or suggestions for ideas or fantasies, what pleases you, what do you love to get done to you? what you like to do?I'm honestly new to this and need help :)Thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2012): Every person is different and likes different things. Some men may not even like receiving oral sex (a blowjob), but are happy to give it (cunnilingus), some women may not like receiving oral sex (cunnilingus) but are happy to give (a blowjob).
I would suggest that what you two do is sit down together and have a look around on the Internet at websites covering this subject, and perhaps see and agree to what you'd both like to try out. You've already provided some search terms in your question that you could use to find some websites advising on this subject, so sit down together at your computer or with your laptop and look around.
This'll give you both the chance to look at the ideas you'll hopefully find, and hopefully allow you to talk through the many aspects of it before trying it out.
Hope this helps, and good luck!
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