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writes:hello aunts!i need some advice on how to deal with boyfriends sister who hates me.she's four years older than my boyfriend, we barely know each other because my boyfriend and her were never too close. last time we met was four days ago on a garden party for closer friends and family, i came to speak to her as i arrived late because of work, and all she said was that my manners are bad.it wasn't the first time she was all stropy. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni've already asked her if she had any issues and she said "no, what makes you think i have a problem with you".
i need to add some feedback - due to some family stuff we will probably see each other more often than we would like to. i really don't want her around our house, but it's hard to just kick her out every now and then seeing she's my boyfriends sister :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): I would just say a polite and quick hi when she was around and not get into any conversation with her unless she started it and then I would be polite but very careful. From the sound of it she is just a nasty woman. Hopefully you will only have to see her every now and then when at family functions with your boyfriend or when at his parents home. Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2012): Ask her why she has a problem with you considering she barely even knows you. In all honesty to me, she already sounds like a stuck up one if she will presume you're not someone she would like to get to know, before she has actually bothered to try.
You say your boyfriend and her aren't close anyway, so hopefully you will only ever have to put up with her in small doses.
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