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female
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writes:I'm starting to like this guy in my class and I'm not sure if he has the same feelings towards me. First off we have ALOT in common, he's always asking what my plans are for the weekend, he also invites me to go out to a Bon fire but I already have plans of my own. We flirt every day in class talking about music, movies, etc. Today's valentines day he said he was taking a "girl" somewhere and buying her flowers. Well before class ended he asked what I was doing after school and wanted to hangout. So I'm quite not sure if there is a girl but he talks about some "girl" alot. Later today I was with my friends we went to go shoot pool and he starts texting me, after a few txts messages I told him " don't you have a date" he said he's on his way so I just put have fun and quit texting him. All I want to know is if he likes me or not? And wondering is there really another girl?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (16 February 2012):
 Theres plenty of guys I know who tell women they are obligated to hang with other chicks simply because it makes them look more valuable vs some idiot who gives a certain woman priority. This doesnt make him trustworthy or not. In fact, that kind of game usually suggests confidence in that he knows how to relate to women. Thats been my experience. Give him a chance. Youre in high school anyway. Have fun.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (15 February 2012):
 If he is seeing another girl, then he is cheating on her by fliting with you.
If he ISNT seeing another girl, and making it up to make you jealous, then he is a liar.
Either way, he isn't very trustworthy.
If he cheats on her he will cheat on you. He sounds like he just enjoys flirting and probably does it with a lot of girls.
Don't take the bait. If he likes you in that way he will make the effort and come to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know he doesn't have a girlfriend. Maybe it's just someone he likes. Would it be a good idea for me to ask him to go see this movie he's been talking about?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 February 2012):
 I agree it sounds like he's trying to make you jealous.
it's not a mature way to determine if you are date material but it's all he's got.
doesn't matter if there actually IS another girl... the fact of the matter is he SAID there is and you need to treat his word as golden. IF you find out that there was not another girl and he WAS doing it to make you jealous...well you have a liar on your hands.
either way he's either with another girl or a liar.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): He's doing it to try and make you jealous. You did right to tell him to have fun and stop texting. If you want to date him you need to be aware that he is a game-player and he needs to be told that if he wants to play games he's blown it with you.
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