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writes:Er.. hello there. well, my problem is this: this guy in my school is by known by everyone and has like 850 friends on fb. he also hangs around with the really cool girls in our year.i'm in love with him but hate that i love him so i be mean to him when ever i can. he's in loves me and has tried to bring our relationship a bit further than “we know each other”.(i don't hang out with him because he's a bit stupid sometimes). well how he has a girlfriend who is popular just like him ( don't worry, i'm not going to try to break them up because i'm not THAT type of girl) and his girlfriend is like friends with the 4 most popular girls and most popular guy in our school ( and hes friends with them too). friends no.1,2 and 3 all hate me now because they know that he is still in love with me. friend 4 is the guy who was also my first guy friend and refuses to talk to me after 9 years of friendship. friend 5 is a bit strange because she talks to me but also sometimes stares at me as well so shes unknown. and since they're popular, they've turned nearly our whole year against me. so suggestions anyone??????All comments are welcome.
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reader, OscarsMummyReturns  +, writes (15 February 2012):
it seems because you are cool with him and not faling al over him it makes you interesting, men always want what they cant get.. if you do like him play it cool, dont get into any silly games just be friendly with him and his friends act like there is no issue - do this for 2 weeks and see if there is any change - if he likes you he will speak to you.. its always the way in school, coolest girls is always with coolest but probably they dont have a lot to talk about.. to be fair he sounds very childish he seems to be encouraging this behavour of everyone falling out with you, i think he likes the attention, the guy is a drama queen - play it cool, be friendly and see what happens, dont leave youself alienated because of one guy, school can be a lonely place at the best of times - be friendly but look elsewhere for fun and love xx
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