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writes:There's this guy who is 3 years older than me. I'm a freshman and he's a senior. I REALLY like him and he's known that I like him and we're like literally best friends. He called me beautiful and even asked me to chill alone with him. We were at my house alone. He didn't even kiss me or anything we just talked and it was amazing! He had his arm around me, he was tickling me and I honestly think he might like me back.But since then, for the past six days, he's been straight up ignoring me. I have no idea what I did wrong. I didn't tell anyone we chilled or anything to piss him off. I don't know what's going on. Please Help Me! I'm freaking out.
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reader, OscarsMummyReturns  +, writes (17 February 2012):
life too short... show him how mature you are, go striaght up to him ask if he is okay and have you done something to upset him, i think he'll be tongue tied - you could say 'oh its just youve gone quiet and was actually enjoying hanging out with you' then leave the ball in his court, take charge and be the mature one here - who knows what he will say but you should be able to get some form of closure ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2012): Boys who are older than you like that and come around once or twice and lure you in and make you think your so special and amazing and your the only one but then they ignore you just like he's doing so that next time you hang out you will want to do whatever he wants so that he won't stop talking to you again..and either you will give it up the first time or the pattern will continue until he gets what he wants. Please don't fall for boys who act like this. Your better than that. And goodluck!
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reader, OscarsMummyReturns +, writes (15 February 2012):
ignore him back, there is no excuse for his behaviour.. i also think he thrives on the attention, maybe girls his own age think hes childish.. if it was me i would go up to him and ask is he okay and have you done something to upset him - see what he says and just say oh right just wondered and walk away.. he'll come running of he really wants you.. i'd do that and then leave it... dont let him think that he is the only thing you think about... ignore him back and have fun yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): He doesn't have a girlfriend and he's probably the sweetest guy you'll ever meet. Also he's REALLY shy and I talked to him for 3 months on Facebook before he finally approached me. So he's not a jerk...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): maybe he didn't like the way your expression or body language was. Sometimes even if a guy that seems real out going, and playful with you doesn't mean he wants to continue being in touch or to take a step further in your friendship. It's possible he has a girlfriend already or maybe somethings bothering him to the point he can't talk to anyone for awhile.
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