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writes:Dear Cupid I recently split from my ex we lived together for a year and then spent another year together but living apart . It was a messy break up he cheated I was very upset and thought if I kept sleeping with him I was keeping close to me. Needless to say that didn't work out well I ended up pregnant we decided to have an abortion. My ex promised to help me trough this time he managed to get me to England and back just about and his behaviour before hdid was very poor ingorin my calls etc. I feel he really let me down made a hard time worse. We had a big fight and I told him I dnt wana c him ne more. Am I being too hard on him, he was prob frecked about it too, I know I cud stay his friend and forgive the cheating but nt this he broke my trust as a friend he wasn't there for me was I too hard
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): Its important a happy start has a happy ending...... It will helps you both feel better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): I sud have said we were friends for a long time before we got together we always said we wudnt let sex ruin our friendship that's why I cud forgive him for cheating. But I feel lik he let me down totally with the abortion and I can't forgive him. I just don't no if dats fair he was dealing with it too can't have been easy for him either, and if I'm honest iv always been da strongest outa the two of us. Tanks for ur comments guys particularly, how wud cope with it?
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reader, Pingu22  +, writes (15 February 2012):
I wouldn't say you're being too hard on him, no. It seems perfectly fair to me actually. More to the point, if you think not seeing him anymore is going to help you feel better and move on then go for it - as far as I'm concerned you don't owe him anything.
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