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writes:I just found out a few months ago that my boyfriend of 2 years has a diaper fetish, he explained to me that he is a "diaper lover" rather then an "adult baby" in the past he has acted out some of my fetishs so Im prepared to take part in hisBut I have no idea how to go about itAny suggestions would be great but please no negative comments:) Reply to this Question
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reader, gaweefle  +, writes (16 February 2012):
first of all let me congratulate you on not freaking out! in case u havent already learned its a rather common fetish and im somewhat of an expert on this particular one. Im going to simply throw you a couple scenarios but if you feel uncomfortable of course don't follow through.
now remember its more who's wearing the diaper so i say throw on a diaper and some lingerie and get all sexy and then just walk up to him or such after his jaw has dropped and his pants no longer fit kind him to a bed or a couch push him down and tease him a bit (kiss him, rub him, do some spins and show it off a bit) bascially the diaper is like very sexy underwear to him. (at this point you could also offer to diaper him if your comfortable) ill assume hell take charge at this point and kiss/remove clothing. things you could do rub yourself either outside or inside the diaper, moan a bit ect. something else most diapr loveing males would love is if you wet it, to go about this get into a sexy pose and let go. obviously if your uncomfortable dont do it. try to avoid messing most diaper lovers don't enjoy that (especially since it smells terrible and makes sex very messy). another scenario is you could throw on the diaper and put on some PJ pants and cuddle up to him and watch a movie. if he doesn't figure it out himself you can take his hand and slide it down ur pants so he can feel it (ALSO if your comfortable try wetting while his hand is right there it would make him ROCK hard :P) good luck if you have any more questions email me at [email address blocked] HAPPY TO HELP AND GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2012): To be honest OP it's his fetish so let him guide you as to what he likes to do. All fetishes are extremely unique to the individual. A person may like S&M for example but that could be anything from biting to whipping but nothing else.
Let him guide you, but make sure you stay within your own tolerance here. Give some leeway to leave your comfort zone and give things a good try but if there certain aspects that you just can't get past then you have adapt this and compromise so that it can be somewhat fun for you too.
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