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writes:ok so lately i've been asking a lot of questions about me and my crush, and thankfully many of you helped me out....so valentines came along and he finally did ask me out. he gave me his number and said that he wants to meet up when i'm bk home on holiday (4 days to go yaayy!) and, for God knows what reason, i'm not to happy about it =/ i mean i am very happy that my dream actually came true ,but i feel scared!! this is my first date ever and i've been questioning myself:what would i wear?will he like me?will he think i'm fat?what if i don't like him?where are we going to meet?where are we going to go?will we be alone? or are his friends coming?how do i react?will he suspect that i never had a boyfriend before?..... :( ughh all these questions are buzzing in my head! but i don't want them to stop me from meeting him..i'm so scared and i feel like throwing up each time i think about it! :(
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reader, BeckySmith101 +, writes (15 February 2012):
well, your in a state that i was in around a month ago. its ok for you not to want to see him.i get that everytime i see my boyfriend. So here i am, answering all yuor questions:1) clothing: If your going to a movie or somewhere inside (NOT DINNER) then I would opt for a t-shirt and jeans or skirt and nice top. day time wear basically. but if its evening date then something a little more "look-at-me" but don't go overboard. no-one wants to go out with a carrot. Outside, whatever's comfortable, depending on the weather.2)If he asked you out and didn't smirk or was on your own then yes! he does like you!!!! why else would he ask you out?3)no, he wont. you need to think about your self-esteem. if your self-confidence is low and your folding your arms all the time, he will probably think your hiding something and is more likley to be less open. he won't think your fat unless you keep on going on about it.4)if you don't like him at the end of the day (and if he was your crush, then you should like him!) tell him. or if you can't do that (don't worry) then make an exuse about leaving early. he will probably get the message.5)its your choice. If either of ou have a car, then goto the person who doesn't have one. you also have to think about whever you want him to see your house if so, and if you want to see his.6)again, its your choice. if you don't want to talk much, then a movie is great. if you do, the dinner is pretty good. really just see what he's like and decide accordingly.7) I would ask him. just say "hiya! just wondering, do you want me to bring freinds? just in case. :)" you probably are going to be alone but just make sure. :)8) you might gibber a little bit and may get wobbly knees. Don't worry about this. just say something like your head isn't working or something that'll make him smile or laugh. If you can controll yourself, look pleased to see him and try to break the touch barrier. this will show that your open!9) it doesn't matter. as soon as I met my bf on our first "date" I told him that he was my first and he was ok with it. Just tell him straight and upfront. he will probably see this as a cute signal and will want to make you smile more. :)honestly? you'll be fine on the day. Promise.Hope this helped!xx
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