A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really like this guy but I can't tell if he is taken or not. I know it's just online and I shouldn't get so involved but I sort of have a crush on him. He is friends with this other girl and they joke or say that they are 'engaged'. I know they really aren't engaged but I don't know if they are dating each other or not. I know she lives in another country. I know that they are close friends at least but I can't tell if they are actually dating. It's not the type of site where you can put profile info like 'in a relationship' etc. Ppl have asked them and they have both said yes and no at different times about being together. He loves to joke with everyone and they call each other fat and she talks about burping and farting jokes with him. It's really hard and confusing for me to tell. Sometimes I feel they don't act romantic with each other but every couple is different. Plus he may act more romantic with her around. Even though he jokes around a lot what guy is going to joke about being engaged to another girl? Today another girl asked if she could be engaged to him too and he said sure, but I don't know who you areI don't want to keep asking and look desperate but I don't want to get a bigger crush or cross boundaries and make his gf upset! What do I do, and what do you think? (this is why I think it's silly and not good for ppl to joke around sometimes)
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reader, Deagan +, writes (14 February 2012):
 I'm happy to hear that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): Hello, I am the poster of this question and you are both right. I finally found out the truth yesterday. He is just friends and jokes around with this girl. I can't even believe he is this immature. I am going to try to date someone more appropriate for me. Thank you very much for your help, I appreciate it!
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reader, Deagan +, writes (14 February 2012):
I would take it as a sign that this guy doesn't want a serious relationship when he can't put a serious indication to what his status is. Forget him.
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