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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi all,Im in a very terrible situation.Let me come to the point.My ex hurt me so badly that i decided to break up with him and he also accepted it and we were not in contact for almost 6 months.In the mean time,one of my colleagues loved me so much.Even i liked him as he was so caring.So i accepted his proposal.But now my ex has come back with the marriage proposal and that he has changed much for me....he is trying all possible ways to win me back and i can sense that he has really changed..im starting to have some feelings towards my ex and im little restrained from showing my love towards my current bf..He is also very sweet..he has never hurt me..But i have feelings for my ex...how can i come out of this situation?can i be with my current bf or move on with my ex?plz help me..
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reader, OscarsMummyReturns +, writes (14 February 2012):
Hello,
I would wonder what your ex was doing for 6 months? Maybe it took him 6 months to realise what he had lost, i dont know i would always say never get back with an ex boyfriend but that is what i have just done
Ask yourself if your ex was not in contact would you be totally happy with your current boyfriend? Sometimes if we go out with someone who does not show they care and then we meet someone who does care and spoils us we get excited and fool ourselves into thinking we are in love when really we are just loving the attention..perhaps neither is right for you ?? can you take time out to think what you really want, i think if you really love someone you wouldnt care who else was interested in you? xx
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