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26-29,
*rinityHunter
writes:So there's this guy at my school. He's a Senior and I'm a Freshman. Every time I see him, he's usually looking at me. A couple days ago, we were both in our separate group of friends next to each other. My sister Kayla knows that I have a crush on him and she tapped on his shoulder. Whenever he turned around, he looked straight at me and smiled. Then Kayla said, "Hey this is my sister *Trinity*." And he smiled at me and said hey. Then she said."Trinity this is *Cody*." And he did the same thing. Later that day he messaged me on Facebook asking if I was the girl he met that day. Every time I look at him, he's looking at me already. I think he's really cute and would really love to get to know him. How should I go about this? Does he like me or is he just being nice? Thanks!!!
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reader, Deagan +, writes (17 February 2012):
 It means he didn't know you are 14. Even though he likes you, he might feel uncomfortable dating some one younger than him. Good luck, I hope it works out.
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reader, TrinityHunter +, writes (17 February 2012):
TrinityHunter is verified as being by the original poster of the question We started textin' alot and now we are goin' to the Sadie Hawkins dance together tonight. Well, he asked me how old I was, he's probably like 17, and I told him 14 and he just responded with "oh". What does that mean? Does he have a problem with it?
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (15 February 2012):
 Well you've already made eye contact and communicated, which is a good start.
Now you can arrange to meet and talk, get to know each other. It's up to you when and how you want to progress with this.
The ice has already been broken. Maybe just ask him out and see what he says. You might take him by surprise, but if he's already making contact he shouldn't be too surprised.
Once you talk to him and find out what he's like you can use your own judgement and figure out what you want to do.
Don't rush into anything and always be safe.
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reader, Deagan +, writes (14 February 2012):
Considering he smiles and looks at you all the time, and he looked for you on facebook, it means he is interested in you.
Now "interested" can go both ways. He is either interested in you as a person, or he is interested in you to get into your pants. I say it in such a blunt way because he is a senior and you are a freshman.
How you should go about this: Get to know him. If you haven't already, mention that it was very nice meeting him, and hopefully you can get a chance to chat sometime. Start talking to him. If you two hit it off well and he asks you out, it's up to you whether you say yes or not.
Just have common sense about it. If he's asking to hang out at his place on the first date, then take it as a warning sign that he's trying to get very intimate fast in the privacy of his own place. A first date should be somewhere public, a place where you can sit, chat, and get to know each other.
Good luck!
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