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writes:What does it mean when the guy I've been dating for 7 months can't tell me how much he likes me, but only says "I like you enough"? Reply to this Question
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reader, bardia  +, writes (13 February 2012):
 "Enough"?! Wow. Just what every girl wants to hear, "I like you enough"--He might as well have said, "I could take you or leave you" or "You occupy my time for the moment." I have to agree with everyone else. You fill some lonely void in his life, but that's it. No one should be anyone's "just enough". My ex said I "satisfied him, but...". "But?!" And after ALL that I brought to the relationship?! When words like these come out of a guy's mouth, you take the initiative and send him packing. That's a clear enough message that you will not be thought of so flippantly, as though you are a dispensible diversion. One day, someone out there will want you as much as you want them. This guy just wants the company, the attention and the entertainment you bring to his life. What a lousy thing for someone to say to you. You are worth way more than that.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 February 2012):
 It means that so far you haven't done anything that annoys him, and that you're good enough for now. There's nothing about you that he deeply cares for, or is attracted to. You're just enough for now. Until he wants better. Or until you make a mistake or he gets bored with you.
Sorry. But this guy isn't that interested in you. I think he's just using you as something temporarily until he finds something he thinks is better... in other words: YOU deserve better.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 February 2012):
 I like you enough to date you
I like you enough to sleep with you
I like you enough to spend time with you
he's not that into you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): Yeah when a man is indecisive and non committal - its so unattractive to me. Men should know what the heck they think and feel and not be afraid to say so.
Your BF sounds like a shallow, selfish douche.
dump him and find someone who values your friendship and isn't afraid to love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): He likes you enough to stick around but not enough to tell you he loves you. Basically he's not in love with you OP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): if he cant show his feelings 2wards u or say how he feels dump him. u derseve better.
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