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female
age
41-50,
*olita
writes:Dear friends,i am a bit perplexed with regard to the behaviour of some guys who i think like getting satisfaction from humiliating others. I met this guy three months ago, we enxanged phone numbers and he asked me to call him (so as not disturb me) the next day so as to arrange to meet up. I called him and he told me that he was to call me later. He called me in the evening to have a chat and he said that we were to speak soon in order to meet up. He never called me again. After a month i bump into him at a bar and he apologized for not calling me; the reason being that he did not know what i wanted from him. Then he asked me if he could call me again and i sad NO ( in spite of the fact that i really liked him). On Saturday we met again at a bar, he spoke to me and i said okay i will give him another chance. He told me it was really bad timing when we first met and that is why he did not want to contact me again. We spent some time at the bar and then we went clubbing. After that he wanted to go to his flat for a coffee and i declined as i was tired and wanted to go home. On Sunday he did not contact me and i thought okay the guy just wanted a one's night stand, he did not get it and he's not interested. I just deleted his number and forgot him! On Monday morning, he called me again to catch up and go for a coffee. we were to leave work at 2 so we were supposed to speak again in order to meet up. He did not contact me so i tried to call him at 3 as i needed to plan my day. and quess what! He did not pick up the phone and he never called me back!!!!! My question is why do some guys behave like this?? Many thanks, L.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (15 February 2012):
 He either already has a girlfriend and was trying to fit you in between being with her or like you said, he wanted a one night stand and wasn't getting it that easily off you.
Guys like that usually have a few girls "on the go" and always chase (and give full attention to) the one who is giving them the easiest lay.
I say leave it and don't pick up the phone when he calls, no matter the excuse.
Or you can get your own back by doing the same thing, that's if you want the drama!
I don't speak for all guys...just most of them!
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 I don't know why guys behave like this, I would like to know myself. But I do know that every girl should stay away from a a guy so unreliable such as this one!
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