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writes:I dated this girl like a year ago. Actually we had dated a year before that but I blew her off becuase I didn't know what I wanted at the time.(I know I was an idiot.) Next year we started dating again but like 6 months ago she told me she was not interested in hanging out anymore. We haven't spoken since, except when I called her becuase of her birthday 4 months ago . She called back for mine 2 months ago. That's it, we haven't spoken outside of those circumstances.Out of the blue she texted me just to say Hi. I don't know what to make of that since I'm not good at relationships and catching little details. Is she just being nice?
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (13 February 2012):
 She texted you out of the blue to say Hi. She's giving you the green lights to open contact and communication. Girls like to be chased after, so since she initiated contact, it means she gave you the go ahead to pursue her.
Just know what you want this time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2012): reply back.. say hi.. and talk to her.. and you will come to know...
Seriously you are being far-fetched.. just talk to her.. it could be anything.. reply to her, talk to her.. and she will eventually tell you.. or you can figure it out for yourself..
DO UPDATE.
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reader, JAMR  +, writes (13 February 2012):
 There is no better way to know what her intentions are than starting up a conversation with her again... If something seems strange then bring it up to her, if you feel comfortable doing so. Just ask her what her interest is all of a sudden. What happened between then and now, when before she didn't feel like spending time together or wanted any kind of "friendship"/"relationship" and now she wants to make small talk. Maybe she IS just being nice, so no reason no to be nice back. See what happens.
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