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writes:dear cupid,this might be a really stupid question, but at least it will be short and sweet. well, actually, it's two questions. if anybody wants to have a go at answering, i would appreciate it greatly. ")1. what exactly is a "squirting orgasm?"2. what makes that kind of orgasm happen?
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reader, MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior +, writes (15 February 2012):
 There is an area called the "Skene Gland" located about 1 inch inside of the vagina, facing towards the pubic mound. It is a sponge-like mass of tissues and nerves, that some people refer to as the "G-Spot", named after Dr. Grafenburg.When stimulated properly, the woman will squirt and have a different type of orgasm called a G-Spot orgasm. The fluid is clear, and comes out of the urethra, caused by a build up of fluids in the Skene's Gland.My girl loves these types of orgasms, but they are different than the clitoral orgasms. Although, some are now calling the G-Spot the G-Area, because of the intricate nerves all connected together from the clitoris into vagina.The best way for me to make my girl have a squirting orgasm is to have her lay on her back during sex. I position myself above her and slowly gain momentum with my thrusting. I then bend her legs back and the angle is more of an upward thrust. This is directly stimulating the G-Spot. By pressing down above her pubic mound with 2 fingers from the outside and rubbing her clit with my thumb, I pull out quickly while pushing her legs back further. A lot of times the squirt will only happen when I pull out quickly. A steady stream of clear fluid will come straight out, sometimes three feet high! Other times, she will just squirt automatically, only about six inches to one foot high.I should note that the more stimulated she is, with foreplay and clitoral orgasms beforehand, the more likely she is to squirt.Also, he must be completely hard. I think it must be the head rubbing against it that makes her squirt.She has told me that it is two different types of orgasms and she prefers the clitoral, but has said they both feel great. The squirting is not a real orgasm, it's just built up pressure and fluids being ejaculated through her urethra, although it is not urine.To sum it all up, to have a squirting orgasm, you have to go in and find the tissue mass behind your pubic bone. Stimulate it vigorously, relax and let loose. I hear it is difficult for a woman to reach in easily to do it herself, but they have special G-Spot vibrators.Good luck, and happy squirting!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 February 2012):
 For most women, it is a myth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): It is also wise to consider that the G-Spot's existence at all is still debated and unproven... except in anecdotes (It's always a friend or an aquaintence or this one time you had a super dooper orgasm, but never any way to prove it).
Squirting is rare as well. The times you see it in porn are either real or just faked and enhanced using various methods.
I wouldn't waste my time trying to achieve it too badly. You will either squirt or you won't. Likewise the clit provides for any sexual pleasure you need anyway if you do it right. Evolutionarily speaking it seems to have little use as women are capable of reproducing regardless of squirting or not.
Just don't let porn make you feel inadequate because those women, by and large are not having real orgasm half the time... would you, after having had sex for 9 hours on camera to get the shot?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 February 2012):
 It's where the woman ejaculates. Supposedly the composition is more similar to ejaculate from males than to urine. It does not come from your bladder, but is expelled through your urethra (not your vagina).
Generally in order for your body to produce the fluid there needs to be G-spot stimulation (usually a small rougher spot on the front wall of your vagina, several inches in). It will feel like you have to pee. Some women hate the sensation, others love it. It's a personal preference. All women have the components to ejaculate, but most women do not ejaculate.
To be honest, for me, it's always felt a bit more like a circus trick than something to do because it feels good. I've had it happen about 4 times, never when trying, and to me it just feels like peeing and is messy.
An orgasm that produces this isn't a different kind of orgasm, though it will probably have a different sensation. The ejaculation isn't actually totally connected to the orgasm. Many women who ejaculate or squirt either do so before or after orgasm, rather than during.
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