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writes:The thing is there's this boy, I met him at my friends house about a month ago. Around 5 or 6 weeks ago he got with my friend and they did things together, but after a while he decided he didn't want to see her anymore. As her friend I know she had feelings for him but she tries to deny it every time we talk about him. Since then they have fallen out and are no longer friends. But in the meantime, I've grown feelings for him and he's told me he has feelings for me too. I really like him and he's told me he wants to meet up more times and lead into a relationship, which I am up for but I don't want to upset my friend, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 When I was 15 years old a guy said to me
"friends are harder to come by than lovers"
it's had such a profound impact on me that nearly 40 years later I remember that like it was yesterday...
if you went to your friend and told her what you wanted what do you think she would say?
she'd be upset and angry and tell you all the reasons it's not a good idea...
is it worth upsetting your friend?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 Well you need to decide where your priorities lie, you do know that if you start meeting up with this guy then it is going to hurt your friend. So you need to decide who is more important to you him or her, because I doubt you can have both.
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