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writes:heyy so basically my question is, is it weird to want to have more sex than my bf does? We used to literally have sex like 4 or 5 times every single day when we first together. We ve been together for almost 9 month and the longer were together the less we've been having sex. Now it's like 1 or 2 times every other day or something. Were together seriously 24/7 so idk why wouldn't. He doesn't really like try that much to, like I feel like I have to intiate it now. I'm ot really aggressive or forward about it, like I just make subtle hints but I feel like he doesn't pick up on them anymore. Idk what's going on? Reply to this Question
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (30 April 2012):
 Once or twice every other day is really good! Try once or twice a month, THAT is when you have a problem. As long as you both enjoy it I wouldn't worry. Buy yourself a good vibrator for the in between days. You only have to wait a day or two for the next time. Honestly, that is a pretty active sex life. Enjoy it, don't analyse it.
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reader, adoresdior +, writes (30 April 2012):
adoresdior is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhoneymood period? Were not married, were just dating. If it's already died down this early, how can we progress in our relationship, if it's already boring to him. But good idea, I'm just not gunna intiate it anymore. Thanks!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 Usually once the honeymoon period is over in a relationship, things calm down and normally that means that sex becomes less. You obviously have a higher sex drive than him, there is nothing wrong with that, but maybe you could find other ways to deal with that instead of having sex all the time. Maybe buy a vibrator or something?
As for him well talk to him and ask him how he feels about things? Maybe he likes a bit of a chase so instead of giving him hints, just do not initiate anything physical at all and see how long it takes him to notice that you have stopped trying.
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