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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello guys and girls,I kinda need help. I have been sexually inactive for over a year but yet, I don't feel the urges to have sex. I don't understand, now, i'm more then focused now on finding someone that makes me happy, and that I can return set favor too. Its just everytime I try, and everytime I fail. I cannot find a girl in the town I live in. But everytime, I get reminded of someone I already love, and why I cant be with anyone else.Lets say her name is Bree. Bree is the most beautiful girl I have ever laid eyes on. I dated her best friend for 11 months, and half that time I was in love with Bree. We had a thing, and it ended pretty roughly on my behalf. She played me like a fiddle, and I danced the tune. Her boyfriend ended up leaving her, and I havent heard from her since.What should I do? I've been debating on moving far away from here. But being only 19 its not very easy. I have nothing. I'm in debt (too my own mother) of upwards $4,000. Cant exactly fly away...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 Make out a plan where you can start paying your debt back. You need to get over this girl Bree. Moving away will not fix that. You need to face it head on. Yes it can be hard when you love someone and that is taking away from you, it is okay to think about her and feel sad, but you need to tell yourself that there are other girls out there. So go out and look. You more than likely have not found anybody else yet because you are still hung up on Bree. But there are other girls out there for you, you just need to give them a chance, go out on dates, and don't compare them to Bree. Try and get to know them as a person, give it a chance, give it some time and you might be surprised at who you might actually fall for. Good luck.
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