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41-50,
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writes:I would like to ask how to fix my relationship with my in-laws who are against me at the very beginning? My 33 year old husband is a Mama's Boy. The rich mother doesn't want to give us a chance to loan from a bank for us to have our own home, the worst part is, she doesn't even want to give us extra income. His younger sister acquired a lot of their parent's businesses and assets through their mom. Whenever my hubby wants to ask if she can loan us some money for our small start-up business or rent to own condominium in the metro, she always say no. But whenever my husband asks something for himself, like an Alienware laptop, MAC book or even an aesthetic surgery (noselift) (yes he underwent), she willingly paid for it. I am staying with them for the last 6 years, 9 months together with his sister-in-law, 5 Aunts, 6 Uncles, 7 Cousins and the rest of the household. No kids yet, thank God. I am 30. Time is ticking, but I want to have our own space before starting our own family. Looking forward for your response.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 He needs to stand on his own two feet if he is wanting to move with you to your own place. His mother cannot hold his hand for the rest of his life. It is her little boy and she probably just does not want to let him go but he needs to start living his own life. It is not up to his mother if you both get a bank loan or not for you both to get a place of your own. This is no way to married life, and not a situation to bring children in to. He sounds spoilt and does not want to leave his home comforts. Talk to him and tell him you are fed up. Are you both working? How come neither of you have any savings? If you both want to live your own life well you cannot rely on his mother giving you money, you both need to earn it yourself.
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