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writes:I've found myself in a strange situation, I worked with this guy for about 3 years, we got on really well even had a cheeky kiss at the christmas parties, he always had a reputation as a player, so it never went any where, when he left I found out that his girlfriend/fiance had cancer, it came as a shock to me that he had a girlfriend but also that she had cancer as she was so young. It has been a year since I saw him and he sends me messages nearly every day - flirting, I really like him but I am confused as to how to act with him. I know that it must have been hard for him to go through that but I also think it's bad that he cheated on her with other people. He has old pictures on his facebook of where they have been together - I mean holidays and swimming with dolphins and hot air balloon rides, and I feel a bit awkward. Plus by the looks of things I am nothing like her, I hate holidays and am really reserved. He asked to meet up and I said I would think about it, I really do like him but not sure about how things are with him, he says hes fine. Any help would be welcome.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 November 2011):
This guy is utterly vile. Stay away from him - or believe me this will ruin your reputation as a woman.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 He has a girlfriend, and she has cancer!! It's bad enough that he cheats on her while she suffers in that state..but do you really want to go behind her back with him??
This guy is a player, the most you would get from him is sex..not a relationship since he's already in one.
Have some respect for his ill girlfriend (since he doesn't) and stay away from this jerk.
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