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writes:I have a friend and we like ot hang out with each other. We started flirting and having sexy chats with pictures and all over the internet. He was dumped by his long time GF 9 months ago and something tells me he still have feelings for her.I didn't liked him as my love before until we started this game of sexually arouse each other. WE didn't had sex, b/c he told me today he respects me too much to played me and that He is after someone else and I just couldn't tell him that I like him. I feel crushed. What should I do?
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reader, Mariab  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 Well nothing dear. He is after someone else and he has been honest that he does not want to use you for sex (which I think is honorable). But listen to what he is saying and respect it. x
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (15 November 2011):
 By not using you for sex this guy is actually doing you a HUGE favour!!
He is post breakup and I think you are 100% right, he still has feelings for his ex and there is just one place that man can be with you right now...and that is 'just a friend'
It's unfortunate that you have fallen for him and if he wasn't 'post ex' things might be different but you cannot change the facts and nothing is going to happen right now.
My best advice would be to quit the sex talk (because friends don't do that) step back a little and give the guy some room. When you encounter a special someone who isn't emotionally available (like this guy)you need to move on and maybe save yourself for someone who IS emotionally available.
Don't be crushed...BE GLAD....glad that no real damage to yourself was done and that you learned to recognise MR UNAVAILABLE before things got out of hand.
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reader, Sarada  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 He respects you a lot so he does not want to play with you by having sex with you.He infact just flirts with you for fun.But there is a girl whom he wants to spoil and fortunately it's not you.Be grateful to him that he is not targetting you.And you after flirting with him you had crush on him because of his sexy talks.Let your feelings go,remain his friend but look out for another man not him if you want to be happy:)
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