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We aren't speaking but I want to wish him a happy birthday!

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Question - (15 November 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok so a couple months ago I lost someone really really really special to me. And even though its been a couple of months I still miss him a lot. What makes it worst is that his birthday is coming up this Sunday and I'm wondering whether I should tell him happy birthday. I'm worried because he's really really angry with me. The last time I texted him he said "what the hell do u want?" and then the whole "i don't care about u, I don't want u to talk to me etc." But he's done this before, and we were able to get through it. Last year we got into a bad fight, and he said those things yet we were able to mend our relationship(It was on his birthday, i was the only person to wish him a happy b-day).I just don't know if I can make things up to him again.He's mad because we got caught skipping school and he found out that I used to cut. And his mom made him switch schools(only 20mins away) I really am sorry and i've told him that.I'm really stuck on what to do, text him or forget about him?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntWell he made the choice to skip school with you, and you two got caught. It's only fair that he face the consequences for his actions. A bit drastic switching schools, but either his mother is really anal or you're a bad influence on him.

Anyways, you can text, send him a message on FB, email, call, or mail him a birthday card just to be nice. But don't expect that you wishing him a "Happy Birthday" will mend this relationship. Sounds like you need to let him go for good.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (16 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntSend him a card in the mail.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (16 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntI guess he is mad at the fact that you used to hurt yourself and he was scared. I don't think it would be such a bad thing if you wished him a happy birthday and tell him you are thinking about it, it shows that you still care about him. If he is still angry at you well at least then you tried.

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