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writes:Ok, if you would like the full background to this question then check out some of the others I've asked. Basically 2 months ago me and the girl of my dreams broke up. She ended things on account of she was having doupts if she loved me or not. This destroyed me, and I'm still copping. I thought she was the one, the girl that I could spend the rest of my life with. I want her back. Were in highschool and graduate next year, and I'm still certain that shes the girl for me even though we have been broken up/ Wierd thing is, even though she broke up with me, she came to me the other day and asked me to be her dance partener for an activity at school. Wanting so badd to spend tme iwth her I siad yes right away. It confuses me alot. I need advice on how to uncover her feelings if there are any, and rekindle the love. Please, please, please I need her back. Thank you in advancerjj1902
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 Am guessing she is your first love. First love's are always very hard to let go off. I understand that. But she obviously broke up with you for a reason, if she was happy she never would have done it, she was unsure about how she felt about you so she ended it. Maybe she feels guilty now about hurting you so she is asking you to be her dance partner so that she can maybe try and develop a friendship with you. Maybe she is not trying to hurt you, maybe she is unaware that you are still hopelessly wanting to have her back. You need to be honest with yourself and her. You need time and space and more importantly separation to get over her. You need to tell her how you are feeling. Tell her you cannot handle just being friends with her at the moment, and ask her is there any chance that she will give the relationship another go. If she says no well then you need to distance yourself from her and accept that it is over and she is no longer in love with you. However hard it is you need to accept that it is over and you need to move forward.
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