A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid, I really really like this guy. Ive had a huge crush on him for 4 years but haven't talked to him until recently. We both are so similar. We like the same things, think the same, we're both kind of reserved and don't open up much. In short, two boring people. So when we talk, a basic chat is all we have and then we run out of topics(At first we had a lot to talk about). Ive asked him a few times if i bore him and he told me i didnt but in fact he liked talking to me. But i just feel at times like the conversation goes no where and when im talking to him, its like i dont want the conversation to end! A week ago he even said he liked me. But now, our conversations are pretty simple and he doesnt text back as fast as he used to earlier. Like i said, i really like this guy and would love if we could move from the 'liking' stage to something more. Im not really sure if he thinks the same after our conversations getting boring. Do you think he still likes me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 You are very negative about yourself and you sound insecure, you sound like a girl that will need to be constantly reassured by a man and believe me no man is going to find that sexy. If you like him well that is good, flirt with him, talk the way that you talk, sometimes simple conversation is good, it does not mean he will think it is boring, he might like the simplicity of it all. The more you get to know him then the more conversation will become easier. There is no point giving up now and over analysing everything. Maybe he is taking longer to text back because he has other things to do or else he is wanting to expand it so that you are both in contact for longer. Why not take the first move and ask him would he like to go on a night out somewhere with you.
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