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writes:about a year ago i was waiting for my bus to go home from college at the station and this girl walked by and we both stared into each others eyes and smiled at one another we both kept looking at each other as she walked past. me then being a shy person just did nothing.now a few weeks ago i was working at this supermarket and she was working too but on the checkouts(my department is next to the checkouts. i walked past her and we both smiled at each other again. and again i did nothing. but recently i have started to have strong feelings to her. im not in love with her as we haven't had a single conversation but she is beautiful. i searched for her on facebook and found her profile and found out that shes got a boyfriend (she posted had a great day with my mr today etc.) she now catches my bus when i go home from the same station and i would like a relationship with her but i don't want to wreck a relationship that she's probably happy in.i want to get to know her but whilst i am doing this i want to get her out of my head and find someone else. and if we are both single at the same time then i will ask her out. how do i do this? as i don't want to keep thinking theres a chance for us when they may not. i don't want to be blowing off girls that could be perfect for me
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 It's not love it's lust, honey. It's pretty normal too. The thing is she HAS a BF, so she is off limits. Doesn't mean you can't say hi next time you go past her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2011):
 She is in a relationship so the decent thing for you to do is to leave her to it and forget about her, you are pining your hopes on something that probably will never happen. You need to try and get her out of your head now and look for someone else who is available. She is with someone else so you just need to admit to yourself that it can't happen. Go out with friends and meet other girls and just try and let it go.
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