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writes:My bf of 2 years was ignoring me lately and most of the times he wont call for a week.I told him repeatedly this is not acceptable, even he is busy he should have atleast left me a message. Anyway i lost my control and didnt call for nearly 2 weeks and after that he called me daily for 3 days and thats it, again he started ignoring me and taking me for granted.He is not busy at work and he finds loads of time to spend with his freinds.Please help to solve this situtaion, i really dont know how to handle this anymore and i am sick and tired of he ignoring me
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2011): sounds like he's not into you anymore. If a guy feels he "has" to call his gf only to shut her up, that's not a guy who actually wants to be with her. He's just too lazy or scared to break up with you, or he doesn't break up because he's still getting something out of this 'relationship' so he's in it for himself only.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 November 2011):
 To me that would mean he is no longer interested in being with you, but don't have the "balls" to break up.
Sorry :(
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 November 2011):
 you are rowing this relationship boat he's just coasting.
sounds to me like you are way more into him than he is into you...
time to move on.
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reader, goldie22  +, writes (15 November 2011):
Im sorry to say but it seems like he is looking to end the relationship but is too scared to actually break up. If I were you I would end it and find a guy who is more willing to give you his time. Ur boyfriend should be happy to spend time with you not ignore you for weeks dont let him hun its not fair. x
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (15 November 2011):
 "Sounds" to me like you're looking for a "relationship"... and HE is having a "dalliance." If you and he can't reconcile THAT... then you two will have to share a "breakup"...
Good luck....
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reader, Mariab +, writes (15 November 2011):
 He sounds like he is messing around and not serious at all. If he was serious, he would be spending time on the relationship... you would not need to resort to games to get him to be more involved. I would just let this one go and find someone more interested and involved. Good luck xx
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