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anonymous
writes: have trouble in communicating with my husband..he told me he doesn't love me..but there are some ways that i feel he's just not telling me what he really feels..there are some point that i still thinks that he has another woman..but he insisted in front of my dad that he doesn't have any other woman..now we don't talk that much..even when it comes to our kids..i really don't know if i shld still wait and hope for us to be together again..or shld i just let go and move on?
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reader, bluecow +, writes (23 December 2011):
You cant hang onto something that isnt there in the first place.
Unless he is willing (and you are) to go to counselling and try to work out the relationship then its over.
You owe it to yourself and your children to move on and find real love again, with someone who loves you just as much as you love them.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 December 2011):
DO you want to try to fix this? IF so you can ask him if he is willing to try to fix it and go to counseling.
IF you don't want to fix it or he does not want to try to fix it then yes you should move on as soon as possible.
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reader, Ciar +, writes (23 December 2011):
Let go and move on. Whether he's met someone else or not is irrelevant. He said he does not love you. That leaves no room for doubt.
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