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I'm worried I'm in love with a guy I grew up with. What will I do about my boyfriend, who I don't love now?

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Question - (23 December 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *razykatee writes:

I grew up on a rough estate, and I hung around with the bad boys.

That was 7 years ago, and since then i met a lad through college and we got together in 2009. He cheated and lied constantly, i forgave him, Though I don't know why I did forgive him, perhaps I was stupid/

I went out on a girly night out in Novemeber and saw a lad i grew up with. the lad I grew up with started texting me and we started to see each other as mates,

We are so close, (the mate I grew up with) nothing happened, but when I'm with him i wish something would happen.

My Boyfriend has a issue with it but he would because he's cheated so he thonks I will too.

Yes, I know I said I wish something would happen but I'd break up with my boyfriend before that.

I don't love my boyfriend any more. I'm worried im in love with my friend!! I think he feels the same, his eyes glow wen he sees me, he tells me i look stunning when I know I look a mess.

arrrrr Could someone please help me?

what is happening to me?

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A female reader, Crazykatee United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2011):

Crazykatee is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Just a update, i broke up with my boyfriend, and i told my friend how i feel, he feels the same, however we aint going to rush it and i've just come out a long relationship X

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A female reader, VSAddict United States +, writes (24 December 2011):

VSAddict agony auntIf you don't love your boyfriend anymore, then you shouldn't stay with him. He cheated on you, so you deserve better. Just because he cheated gives him no reason to think that you will do the same. Break up with your boyfriend and if you really want to, then put yourself out there and tell your friend how you feel. But you should make sure you're totally over your boyfriend before you start another relationship.

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