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writes:Ughh, I feel like I'm asking questions all the time now! Sorry.Anyway. A couple weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up ya know, and well, I kind of miss him. People keep saying no commitment, just have fun and date, which is all fine and dandy I enjoy it, but I really miss the guy! Evidently, he likes this girl now, ad she has a girlfriend. Anyway, I thought I was over him I became interested in other guys but OH NO, now I'm completely in the like with him again:P. i dont know what to do. (If your wondering why we broke up / I'm not even sure it was a really crazy week and it was out of the blue and there was hardly no explanation)Thanks :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 December 2011):
 it takes time to get over an ex especially at the holidays.
he's moved on and you need to as well.
my BFF and i have always had the 6 week rule... you get to mourn and be self indulgent for 6 weeks.
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 hiya hun
you have only been single for a couple of weeks!!! If you had real feelings for this guy then they dont go away overnight.
Take some time out, cut as much contact with him as is possible, ask your friends to stop giving you updates on his life and try to move on.
Moving on doesnt mean going out every night trying to pick up another guy, nor does it mean dating whoever shows you interest next. It just means carrying on as you did before you met him. See friends, go out, study, do your hobbies etc etc.
You need to give yourself time to heal, time to realise that you DONT NEED HIM, and that life is just as fun without him around. Every time you think about him repeat why you broke up (and that he is now chasing another tail) to yourself as a mantra.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): i've been in that situation. But if he has moved on you should try. Make plans to hang with friends or go to a party and flirt with ppl. hope this helps
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