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reader, Phunky  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 some girls would think DISGUSTING he wants me for sex and some girls think that's actually sexy and their well educated and knowing its normal ;) try while kissing her thinking about other things, then she wouldnt read your mind
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 December 2011):
 ah yes but hugging a friend means hips don't touch so who would know...
I mean i never hug male friends with more than a lean your shoulders in kind of hug... full body hugs are reserved for my partner.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (24 December 2011):
 Agree with most answers, it is totally normal and if it wish a long term girlfriend or sexual partner it is more likely to be a turn off than turn off.
If it is not a girlfriend or a new partner then just try not to make it obvious.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (24 December 2011):
 If she's your girlfriend, or a girl your kissing and making out with, then an having an erection compliments her and tells her you think she's sexy. Just don't push it into her stomach. If she wants to feel you more, she will move closer.
If it's some strange girl your holding, like when your dancing at a club or something. An erection is rude and irritating. Not keen on people hiding things, especially natural things they cannot control. All you need to do in this situation, is move back and hold her lightly so she cannot feel your body.
An erection is not wicked or bad, that's like me saying my nose is bad because it starts to sneeze. But sometimes a sneeze is impolite like when I'm at a concert, and I may have to go outside because I don't want to disturb anyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): No, quite the opposite ;)
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Not at all hun, I actually find it a turn on.........knowing that my partner is aroused by me and by what we are doing:) It's perfectly normal and a sign that you are healthy!
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reader, Xx-Scorpio-xX +, writes (23 December 2011):
 I find it a huge turn on that my boyfriend gets hard just through kissing/hugging. i think many girls would feel flattered and feel happy knowing that they are turning on their guys ^_^
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reader, HippyChick +, writes (23 December 2011):
 No, it's not disgusting, it's the most natural thing in the world. A man kisses a woman, he gets turned on, it's what keeps this world of ours going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): As long as it isn't the first time you are kissing her as it might feel a bit weird for her and she might worry you want to take things further, but once you know a girl then no worries she can take it as compliment!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 December 2011):
I don't find it disgusting as long as he does not grind his erection into me...
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reader, bardia +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Gonna have to agree with bluecow. Drives me wild when I notice it with my boyfriend. Makes me feel very wanted.
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reader, bluecow +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Perfectly normal, and no I dont think any girl would be discusted by it.
If you have only just started seeing someone I wouldnt go drawing attention to it until your both ready to take the kissing a step further... I also wouldnt go shouting about it - especially if your in a public place... but most girls would be flattered. What better sign of how interested (at least sexually) you are is there?
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 Self control is key! Practice makes perfect.
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