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*udolph95
writes:Hello :) Right its quite complicated but here goes. :L I have a friend whos a boy called ant and we have been friends for a while now and get on really well. Hes in the same class as me so we are always together and recently i have started to like him more than a friend. We were talking the other day and he asked me who i liked and in the end i just thought i would tell him its him. He said oh im suprised in a good way then told me about a girl he likes in the year below. Everytime we go out together in a big group of friends he always puts his arm round me when we are walking and is always touching my hair or messing around. Last week a big group of friends went out to this party thing and we all got a bit drunk and i remember just being sat down with another friend on some steps. He came over and sat next to me and put his arm round me. I leaned on him and them he started touching my hands and holding them and stuff. Then he went to speak to someone else so me and a friend went to where he was and one of his friends came over and said ant said do you want to go for a walk and snog him. I cant remember what i said but the next thing i know im hugging him and hes stroking my hair and we start walking off into the dark. Then my friend came over and we went under the bridge for a wee. I saw him there too then he came over and we started walking back together. Then i saw my friend and a boy walking past snogging and i said to ant look at them haha and he said should we too?Then suddenly we were stood there snogging for ages. We walked back to where our friends were and everything was normal. Then the next day he said i have been thinking and i remember what happened last night. Please dont tell anyone because now he likes a different girl. I was really confused and asked him why he kissed me if he likes someone else. And he said he was drunk but he wasnt really that drunk and knew what he was doing. Im really confused..What shall i do? :) Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Thats how guys are!! It's up to you to protect your body and guard your heart. I have a rule and it's never let me down. Don't hook up unless it's monogamous on his part and yours. Also, I avoid sex outside a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Aww, i'm so sorry. I remember how hard it is being a teenager. He sounds really immature. He shouldn't have kissed you if he doesn't like you or doesn't want to be with you. I know it's easier said than done, but please try and forget about him, and find a guy who really likes you and does want to be with you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 I'm American and I actually wasn't sure till the end was Snog was.. I thought it meant sex and my response was still the same then.. BECAUSE HE COULD.
remember this slightly tongue in cheek saying:
women need a REASON to have sex MEN just need a PLACE.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2011): Why not? You were an easy drunken snog. When handed to us on a plate not many of us are going to refuse OP. It was just a snog like, no big deal to him and a big deal to you.
He kissed you because he's an asshole OP. He knows you like him so he shouldn't have snogged you unless he wanted something more but he didn't really care how you'd feel he just wanted and easy snog.
So look you know that he doesn't want anything more from you, he likes this other girl, not you. So forget him and move on and no, snogging a 100 times more is not going to make him like you more. He simply is not interested.
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