A
male
age
30-35,
*Confused
writes:Hello people!Recently I started talking a lot with this girl I met through one of my friends. We have been together a lot and we hung out 2-3 times a week. I told her that I was interested in dating her because I liked her and would like to find out more about her so she said we should do it. Now I asked my friend the other day if he knew if she was interested in me (Before I set a date to meet up with her) and he said that she liked one of my other friends. I asked my other friend if he liked her but he disagreed. Now, I've suspected them of dating behind my back cause they're a lot together even though she agreed on going on a date with me. I asked her out last Friday but she said she couldn't. Later that day my friend posted pictures on Facebook with them together.I've tried to get in touch with her loads of times by calling or texting her but it takes her 3-4 hours to answer but every time we're together, she texts to friends.What should I do?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (23 December 2011):
I agree with the others, it's time to start looking elsewhere. You're not her boyfriend, so she's not obligated to dating only you--like men, many women will still keep their options open as well, especially if they're not sure anything is going to happen with someone else they have set their sights on.
Don't take it as an insult or anything. She might think you're a nice guy and great in your own way, but she's probably more into someone else.
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male
reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (23 December 2011):
Sorry, something with her has changed. Though she may have agreed to get to know you better, she doesn't seem to be interested. I'd move on and concentrate your energy somewhere else.
Best of luck!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 December 2011):
 she's not that into you....
you should consider her a friend nothing more...
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