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How do I give my experienced boyfriend a blowjob?

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Question - (23 December 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2011)
A age 36-40, * writes:

ok i really want to impress my boyfriend my giving him a bj but i don't know how because i've never done it. His Ex girlfriend gave him a bj but he stoped her because he said it didn't feel right and her teeth hurt. so please help guys, i din't wanna remind him of his Ex

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011):

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thanks ya'll hopfully i'll please him and not hurt him :P

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A male reader, LovelessAct1 United States +, writes (23 December 2011):

1. No teeth. This does not feel good. Its like someone is scraping the skin off your soul. If you have a smaller mouth, this can be tough for some girls, but try to avoid as much teeth to penis contact as possible.

2. Don't suck it like a straw. I know a popular synonym for oral is to "suck dick," but that's not really an accurate description of the motion you're making.

3. Use tongue. Move your tongue around while you're doing it to add a lot of pleasure.

4. You're basically moving your head up and down for a long period of time, so you'll probably get sore in the neck/jaw/back. If you need to slow down, go ahead. Slowing down can make it more intense for the guy; just don't tease too much.

5. Talk to him about what he likes and have him "coach you" the first few times you do it. I know it sounds ridiculous, but this is the best way to get a hang of it and for him to relay to you what he wants.

6. You don't need to swallow, though guys tend to like it when you do. I can't exactly put my finger on why, but its pretty hot... But if its just too much for you, don't feel obligated to swallow your first time or at all if really don't think you'd like it.

7. Have fun with it! This is an experience for both of you, so let loose and have a good time! It's more enjoyable for everyone this way.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (23 December 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntit's all about wet and hot and no teeth... some sucking lots of up and down movement... use your hands at the base

curl your lips around your teeth a bit and form an O with your mouth just WATCH the teeth... and tell him to tell you what feels good... even if it's with moans and sighs... note that as he enjoys it more his penis will get larger and you have to watch the teeth even more...

it's a skill but it can be perfected.

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