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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi..I'm 15, i've got no social life, no friends, my only friend is myself, i talk to myself for long hours and i don't get tired. No one seems to understand me, especially my parents. I cook, clean and organize the home, and all my dad does when he returns from work is to yell at me or use his belt on me whenever he pleases. I hardly have time for myself. I cant even remember the last time i watched a program on tv! I work hard at home everyday until i'm dog-tired, i strive hard to please by giving my best, but no sees that, all they see and say is that i'm wicked and selfish...I get blamed for every bad thing that happens.. I know life is unfair sometimes, but this is more than unfair! Reply to this Question
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (23 December 2011):
 You need to make sure that the help you are giving is done in a confident manner and take charge of the situation with your head held high because helping family is a wonderful service.Don't do things out of fear, find leadership qualities which all your favourite heroes possess.If people blame you for things you have not done, you have to stand up for the truth, no matter how trivial it might seem. Once people see that you are in control of your own life and respect yourself and have a sense of value to your life, they will automatically respect you and take you seriously.Everyone is different when it comes to friends, I love my own company but also enjoy company of like minded friends. Opening up and befriending people helps a lot in life so try to make a step in that direction and things should change.
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