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writes: My girlfriend of 3 and a half years just recently broke up with me. We started dating right when she got out of highschool she is now 22 and i am 25. We were each others first love and now she says she wants to be alone. She says she doesnt really know who she is and she doent want to talk about it and wants to move on and that i should do the same. I can see mistakes that i made like not trying to improve my life which i know she hated. What can i do to get her back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): aww!! 3 and a half years is a long time. me and my boyf are the same ages as u guys- and been together for four yrs. last week i told my boyf i need sum space to figure out if i reallly wanted to be with him-maybe there is someone else out there for me? it sounds so selfish-but sometimes i feeel sooo 'cooped' up in this relationship and i need space to breath. i know everything about him-theres nuffin new- dont get me wrong-i think the world of him-its just that i dunooo...im waiting for something fabulous to happen...im not too sure on what im waiting for.
back to ur gf...maybe u shud try and re-win her over- ? give it a couple of weeks, and then do sum random romantic things.maybe u need to show her how serious u are...how much u love her. littles gestures...go out on dates n stufff?...
'when u love someone..u shud let them go...if they come back to u...they are urs for keeps...if not..it wasnt ment to be'..
love n god bless
friend xx
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (10 May 2008):
It isnt neccessarily something you did wrong that made her break up with you. As you have said, you got together at a young age and havent experienced other relationships. Its probable that she feels you both need more life experience before settling into a serious relationship.
If her minds really set on this than you cant change her mind, she might change her mind in time, but then again she might not. All you can do is wait and preferably move on.
good luck
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