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writes:well you see im 14 and i have a crush on this guy firstly i dont no how to get him to notice me he is always (in a jkie wai) takin the mick out of me and secondly i think im frigid because i dont no how to french kiss a boy and im scared i will be bad HELP!!
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reader, rebecca.megan +, writes (15 May 2008):
 Hey,
i'm fourteen too,
don't worry, at some point everyone thinks they're "frigid"
when in fact all they are is nervous (:
don't be scared, just relaxed, if you ever get into a situation where you do end up kissing him, then just let it happen, it all comes naturally.
i remember my first time, wasn't too pleasant if you ask me,
but now with my current boyfriend, we can kiss for hours &still not get bored.
just take it as it comes, don't be scared and if it all goes well, like Loulee said, let him slip the tounge in, but don't be anxious to make the first move.
you'll remember it forever.
As for not knowin' whether he likes you or not,
if he's always "taking the mik" out of you,
then chances are he does,
but just be careful he's not a player.
too many of them around at the moment.
hope this helps,
&if ou need any more advice feel free to mail me (:
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reader, rebecca.megan +, writes (15 May 2008):
Hey,
i'm fourteen too,
don't worry, at some point everyone thiks they're "frigid"
when in fact all they are is nervous (:
don't be scared, just relaxed, if you ever get into a situation where you do end up kissing him, then just let it happen, it all comes naturally.
i remember my first time, wasn't too pleasant if you ask me,
but now with my current boyfriend, we can kiss for hours &still not get bored.
just take it as it comes, don't be scared and if it all goes well, like Loulee said, let him slip the tounge in, but don't be anxious to make the first move.
you'll remember it forever.
As for not knowin' whether he likes you or not,
if he's always "taking the mik" out of you,
then chances are he does,
but just be careful he's not a player.
too many of them around at the moment.
hope this helps,
&if ou need any more advice feel free to mail me (:
x
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reader, LouLee +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Don't worry hun, my first kiss was wen i was 13
Basically he was experienced so i was lucky, well you can imagine a kiss without tongues, you both go in for the kiss and on this occasion he slipped his tongue into my mouth if you get me? But if he doesnt hesitate to, you can =)
Then go along with the flow..its not as scary as you think, honest =)
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reader, starfairy +, writes (10 May 2008):
 If he's always taking the mick out of you - he's noticed you! And chances are he likes you, guys at that age generally don't know how to flirt/show a girl nicely that they fancy them!
As for the kissing...I remember really panicking about it, I was the last of all my friends (and the rest of my year, it felt like) to french kiss a guy.
People can give you all the advice they want on kissing, but the thing is, you really get the hang of it when you do it!
You just get a rthym of moving your mouths/tongues together...It's best to ease into it, have a series of little peck kisses, so you relax and get into the kiss, then make a move with the tongues! Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): first of all, just try talking to the guy, see what you have in common. Him taking the mick is not always a bad thing-he could be trying to get your attention and think that this is the only way.
You are 14, you're young-you are NOT frigid! I used to have alot of friends who were scared about their first french kiss so i'll tell you what i told them-it comes naturally. There's no need to worry about it because there really is no wrong way of kissing.
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