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writes:Me and my Boyfriend broke up a few days ago, he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and we moved too fast and we've been together for 8 months, but it wasn't a horrible break up,and we talk on the phone like friends, and hung out for a couple hours. He told me he still loves me and always will and he'll never forget me and i told him the same, and he said he wants to be friends. should i give up on us and just be friends. Because i feel like it's not too late and it just doesnt feel right. he also said it doesnt feel right but it's the right thing to do. And i asked him to think about us before making a decision and he said he will. He obviously has feelings, because he was very emotional when i seen him, and so was i. And gave eachother a couple of kisses.. And wants to talk on the phone still and hang out one day,but is this really over?? it breaks my heart to think it is! What should i do???
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reader, les  +, writes (12 May 2008):
Hi, I'm so sorry for you. The same thing happened to me, and I'm about five years older.
If I were you, I wouldnt wait around for him, I'd move on. Does he have feelings for you? Maybe.. But if he knows that its making you suffer for him to break up with you AND he wants you to be friends (to make it easier for him to cope), this guy isnt thinking about you, he's thinking about himself.
Seriously, do yourself a favor, realize that you are going to meet men who will lead you on and then change their mind midstream, realize for warning signs of those, and then demand that the men you date are real men, not boys that need to be babysat and emotionally cuddled.
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reader, bayleex  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 I would leave it a couple of weeks to see if he's ready to try again. But if your still not together in a month I would stop speaking to him on the phone and hanging out with him because it only makes getting over him harder. And once that is done be friends.
Good luck
xx Baylee xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): just wait for him to feel comfortable you never know you might get back together. you just have to wait and see i know its hard but just try, don't give up it sounds like you were a great couple be friends until he is ready. patience.
hope this helps
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