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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so theres this boy...he is absolutely amazing and he's my best friend. He moved away because he got in some trouble almost two years ago now. well when he does get to come home to visit he acts like were together. which really doesn't bother me because I'm interested in him a lot. I'm a junior in high school and I have known him since 7th grade and I really do love him he's my best friend...but the last time he was home, before he left we had sex. I know he loves me and cares about me but before he left he told me that he didn't know what he wanted and when he got home he just wanted to get his life back and see what happened from there...but still told me he loved me and cried to me about how much he was going to miss me...so I'm pretty confused! any advice as to what I should say or do?? thanx a lot!
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (29 August 2008):
 wow he is one confused kid! he loves you and you two had sex and he cried about how he was going to miss you... but he doesn't know what he wants?
i think he is just overwhelmed. moving around is hard, so respect his wishes. let him get his life sorted out first with your support as a best friend first. then see where your relationship goes!
tell him you love him but if all he needs is a best friend for now, you understand.
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