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writes:My boyfreind is always so busy and never seems to make time for me....It really hurts my feelings and makes me feel down all the time..It is really distracting me so what i am asking is should i just move on and find someone better. We have been dating for 2 years and are living together and i always feel like i am the only one who does the work and i feel unappreciated....Any avise?
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reader, Manja  +, writes (18 June 2009):
Yea it happens to me, I am in a long distance relationship. When I ask my bf if we are not communicating more than three days, what do you want me to do? Then he replied, we shall talk about this later... and it never happen. The next time we chat he forgets about what he said, and still say he loves me i am the world to him.. and when i reminded him gently he giggled and said its my fault and will call for real and he never did again... so many times.SO i guess, he is the kind of man who can not promise when he knows he can not deliver... I am just concerned if he remembers all the things he confessed to me while courting on our honeymoon period first 3 months... because I remembered every words he said.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Love is happiness, if it is pain , then it is not love.
Better to be single or find another one.
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reader, growing  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 I agree that after 1000's of attempts to amend things between you two,you came here to seek advice but you know the answer. Its there in you.
Think again,the way you said that you should you move on,made me think that you too are not into him and it won't be that hard for you to move on.
So if this is the case,then just move on and get what you are worth.
If it is just that his work keeps him busy but he loves you ,then why not plan out some break for just 2 days.it will surely rejuvenate your relationship and you can actually talk your heart out.
basically,you need to understand your desires and then act in accordance.
further doubts??
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