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writes:ok wow.. got my first hand job from my gf tonight.. masterbating has been weird to me for a long time so i haven't gotten off for the longest till tonight.. but..... it took forever for me to finally cum.. she was sooo tired and out of it.. is there something wrong with me taking forever bc she was doing everything perfect.. wow for a first timer tonight she was amazing.. but really is there something wrong with me taking forever?? and if so how do i fix it
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2008): Hi Hunny
WastedLife has given you a good answer, I do think its nerves You could have been getting more and more aware of how long it was taking rather than just going with the moment and enjoying it, I wouldnt worry to much sweetheart. Just try to relax and as time goes on you will feel more at ease and maybe as this was the first time you felt a little under pressure..TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, WastedLife +, writes (10 May 2008):
Tricky question, because I don't know why you are limiting yourselves to a hand job. Your name indicates you are a virgin - do you want to remain that way? Are you two involved in oral? If she is nervous about you cumming in her mouth, then she could finish with a hand job and it would be quicker and easier for her. Of course, pure oral is much more pleasurable (for me), than a hand job ever. What are you doing to satisfy her? If she is going to work that hard for you, give her something special too.Anyway, back to your question, your body knows you, and you will stimulate yourself differently, even if what she does is "perfect". I certainly wouldn't complain if it took forever - more pleasure for you, but more work for her. Since it's your first time, you were probably a bit more nervous about her reaction. See if that changes, and work more on the foreplay and buildup for both of you. Good luck.
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