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I've heard she likes me but not from a reliable source, do I pursue her?

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Question - (10 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a very good friend who I would like to pursue a relationship with, but am unsure how to proceed, and if to proceed at all - I do not want to lose her friendship by making a clumsy attempt at romance, but I have had feelings for her for a long time.

Before yesterday we were on very friendly terms, we had gone to dinner/movies several times in the past few months, but never in any romantic capacity.

I had heard rumors that she liked me, but not from reliable sources.

Yesterday, however, we had our Senior Prom (this girl and I went together). It seems that she and I were much closer than usual during the proceedings. She squeezed my hand during one of the photographs, and leaned very close to me during another. I did not make much of these things since I thought that it was for the sake of photographs.

We had a lot of fun dancing together (slowly). At the end she told me that she really enjoyed everything.

During the limo ride back, she took and held my hand. At the after-party, when we watched a movie, I took hers. I was afraid that it would make her uncomfortable (I am very unsure about these things), so when I asked her about it, she said that she liked it.

Ultimately my question is: Is she actually interested, or was it simply because it happened to be Prom?

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A female reader, malvern United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2008):

malvern agony auntYes, she's interested and probrably bursting for you to make a move. Ask her out on a date.

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A female reader, growing India +, writes (10 May 2008):

growing agony auntShe is intersted if whatever you noticed wasn't fake.

I mean what if she was dropping all those himts just to win a bet to proove your friends that you are into her.

lol!!!

she is very much interested so now just ask her out.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2008):

starfairy agony auntYup!! She's interested!

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