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writes:I was tested for STI's the other day. The doctor done a swab and said she had detected some cells that looked like chlamydia, she gave me antibiotics and told me I needed to inform my sexual partner. She told me I would need to phone the clinic a week later to get my results. I told my ex, as he was the only person I had slept with in 3 years (I was tested before him and was all clear) which has caused massive rows because he would have had to have cheated on me to get the infection. He has also told a couple of other girls he has slept with since we split, so they can get checked and sorted out. But yesterday I rang for my results and they were all clear. I am in shock cos the doctor told me there and then that she was sure she had found chlamydia cells in me. But I dont know how Im supposed to ring my ex and tell him I was mistaken, after the rows and embaressment this has caused I just dont think I can do it. But if I dont, then his results may come back clear which will make me look like Ive been sleeping around!!!! Im in a mess I really dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): Pick up the phone and call him and tell them all is fine!
He will be truly relieved and happy.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 May 2008):
 I think you were very responsible in informing him about the supposed chlamydia, and now you'd be responsible, again, if you informed him the tests were negative. Let him think whatever he wants. You can show him the official results if he wants to have proof. After all, you're clean. And, from what I see, he has cheated on you, and there's proof of that.
You're only telling the truth and haven't slept with anybody. Let him think whatever he wants.
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