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writes:ok so ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 weeksand basically im really quite nervous when it comes to making out,im not nervous with other things that people usually are but i am with that and when it comes to making out i get scared and i end up pulling away from him, also hes too fast for me to keep up with which makes me even more nervous, how do i overcome this?thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, LoveWhitneyHate  +, writes (7 July 2008):
 There probably is a way to overcome it.It makes sense that your nervous.I was EXTREMELY nervous when it came to making out because you don't know what to do.It's hard when you have a boyfriend who is already experienced.When you feel that you guys are about to make out, inform your boyfriend that your nervous and that you like to take it slow.Just relax when you are.Also if he keeps going fast, stop,push him away a little,and remind him that he should respect your wishes.If he doesn't respect that, then he doesn't deserve you.
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reader, stuckinthemiddle81 +, writes (7 July 2008):
 It is perfectly normal to be nervous about making out. When I had my first kiss at your age, I was SUPER nervous. I still have the letters I wrote to my best friend that I never gave her that screams worries to her in all CAPS, "WHAT IF I HAVE TO COUGH?! WHAT IF I SNEEZE IN HIS MOUTH AND POP A LUNG?! WHAT IF IM NOT DOING IT RIGHT?" (Actual questions by the way lol) First of all, it took me a month to kiss him (I gave him a date on when I would be ready to kiss him-I know, I'm lame but it was my choice and he had to wait for me or else he wasn't getting ANY kisses from me!) But after reading about kissing from articles and hearing about my friends humorous embarrassing stories about their first time, I relaxed a bit and we finally kissed in the trainstation after school. I was on cloud 9 and almost got hit by a car running home with excitement!
Just relax and let it happen, feel how hes kissing you and do the same exact thing and you'll know what to do. You will soon be use to it. Also, let him know to slow to heck down with things cause its making you nervous. Tell him the samething I said, "Go on by my pace or else you ain't gettin' any more kisses from me." Good luck!
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