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writes:I have gingery brown pubic hair although my natural hair colour is dark brown...I've always been really embarassed about this because when I was at school, kids would always make fun of 'ginger pubes'.Now I'm 25, and no man has ever seen me in the light without knickers on (I have no problem with going topless).How can I get over this?
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I'm a natural redhead (and down below, too) and put up with a LOT of crap in grade school and some in high school because of it, but I never really let it bother me because I always knew it made me unique and memorable. Now, of course, I have to be content with the lower areas only, because most of my head is pink skin and the little bit of remaining hair is mostly gray. But yes, it is rare, and something to be very proud of!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHooray I'm rare lol.
I had a look at that Betty website, they only deliver to USA, and I'm in the UK, but it seems a few UK websites sell it too...Maybe I should try the blue! Heh heh...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Phwoaaarrrr! Even more rare!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Hey. try betty hair dye. Its specificaly made for the pubic area. I've tried it before and it was quick and easy and my pubes finally matched my blonde head, they were dark brown before. WWW.BETTYBEAUTY.COM
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI should probably clarify that I am a natural dark brunette on top...So people expect down below to match I guess!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): I used the new minikinicolour it worked a treat. It is a great brake through for us gingers.
Regards
Karen
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reader, lexilou +, writes (7 July 2008):
 Honestly my daughter has never ever been teased about her hair, I think traditionally it tends to be the boys at her school who get a bit of teasing for really ginger hair. I wouldnt describe her as ginger but a redhead, its a beautiful colour and she often gets stopped by women and asked what colour she has dyed it and they all go wow when she says its natural. So forget about the idiots at school, most men are not that shallow x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): You have heard from guys here.Don't ever base your opinions on yourself from something someone said in High-School.Lots of people are bullying gits at that age and that period of their lives.Most grow out of it (some don't, but these types are easy to avoid) and these are the types you are now speaking to.Red-haired women are extremely beautiful because men grow to realise they are rare. A man can go and date a blonde or brunette anytime they want. But a true red-head only comes along sporadically so once you find a girl like you (I'm sure no guy objects to you being topless, :P), he realises just how much that beauty is worth.Thats not to say the blondes and brunettes aren't worth the same, I'm just saying its different with natural Gingers... because they aren't as plentiful as the others.That said, maybe I'm biased because I have always preferred red-heads or girls with darker hair like Raven or dark brown. The current object of my affections is an Italian girl and as such she has black hair and it is the biggest turn on.Flynn 24
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reader, lexilou +, writes (6 July 2008):
Lots of men adore red heads and expect ginger pubes! My ex had dark hair and gingery pubes and although we splt up it was to do with his fists not his colouring.
My daughter is a beautiful redhead and when she was 8 we decided to get a cat. She told everyone she wanted a ginger p*ssy (as in cat) and I had to stop her from saying this and told her she should say I want a ginger cat, afterall we all knew she was going to get one some day!!!!!!
My mate is a redhead and says her hubbie can find it in the dark and is proud of it, bless her. If a man loves you he will love everything about you, honest x
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reader, MissRosie +, writes (6 July 2008):
 Gingerness can be as sexy as anything else! why shouldn't it? And as the first poster said, if you really hate it that much get the whole lot waxed off by a proffesional at a salon.
Take care x
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (6 July 2008):
 i think you need to be aware. that alot of guys are not getting laid.
and as such if you're naked in front of them... they arn't gonna say
"OH DEAR GOD YOU HAVE GINGER PUBES"
only to then have them vomit green pea soup and throw water on you whilst repeating " The power of Christ compeles you"
i'm sorry you had a craptastic time in school but but generally don't care. and if they do.. then you shouldn't be with someone so shallow.
Put the past behind you. kids are cruel but guys are more happy to get laid than worry about your ppube colour.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm so shocked...Are you guys all for real??
All I remember from school are cruel rhymes about ginger pubes and ginger kids getting bullied for the colour of their hair...
And now people are saying it's a turn on and they envy me?
Surely this is some kind of conspiricy lol...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): i cant think of any guy that this wouldnt turn on. you actually have a rare blessing with nothing to be embaressed from. actually. i envy you with this.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (6 July 2008):
Well, you could always color your hair to match the ginger.
Just kidding.
By the time you reach the stage with a guy where you're ready to bare all, you should be close enough to him that a few shades of difference in hair color are not going to matter. If he notices and says something about it (HIGHLY unlikely, I'd bet), just say "oh, it's always been that way" and forget it. I'll guarantee you there's not a guy on the planet who's going to back out and tell you to put you clothes back on because of the color of your pubic hair.
And if he is stupid enough to make a remark about it, then or later, just let him know that he'll certainly not be having to put up with seeing it again. THAT will shut him up in short order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): I've always considered ginger pubes to be the Holy Grail myself. I only ever had one girl who was so adorned, and by 'eck, she turned me on. Sweetest little pussy I ever tasted. And such a rarity.
Be proud of what you've got. Trust me, they're nothing to be ashamed of or to hide away. They're the equivalent to caviar as opposed to fish 'n chips.
Really - trust me on this one! What a pity I'm too old for you or I might make advances.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): As long as it is neatly trimmed - making sure it is very short and tidy, you will be fine. Its not a big issue for guys i would think. Just use wax or the epilator as you shouldn't try to do anything in regards to changing the colour. If you are embarressed still - take it all off.
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