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30-35,
*BM2008
writes:I met a guy in November and we dated for about a month.He broke up with me and we didn’t talk for a while, but later on we started talking again.We went on several more dates, and I decided that I wanted to have sex with him, so I waited a month for him to come back from a trip he had to take because of his job in the military. We had sex and I was very happy, but he never called me again. I gave myself to him and that was it---he didn’t give a fuck. That was in late April, and then he dated someone for like two weeks, which has very hurtful. He started talking to me again and recently told me he was sorry and didn’t just “want to take my virginity and split” which I told him he did. Of course his “it wasn’t like that at all” sounded sincere. He was sweet again but I know he just wants sex.My mom knows about it. Her crazy 6th sense…she knew all along, and she just told me today. I feel like I failed her, because I didn’t wait for someone better, but I honestly wanted him and I don’t regret having sex. I just feel awful because I wanted more (emotionally)I just deleted his number and vowed to never try to contact him again.I feel childish, I mean I’m 18, why didn’t I see it coming? How do I forget about this?
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reader, EBM2008 +, writes (20 July 2008):
EBM2008 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to everyone for your help. I'm getting over it, and advice like this is very encouraging.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 You trusted this guy and gave him the ultimate gift. But dont blame yourself you were not to know, it does sound like you rushed into a little bit as you didnt really know him too well after only a few dates.
Its done now so put it down to experience and next time make the guy wait until you are in a steady relationship before you give yourself again. x
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reader, Miss Del La Rosa +, writes (6 July 2008):
 Dont be silly how could you have know it was going to be like that?
you cant chage what happend but you can make sure the things from your past impove your future.
Also you havent let your mom down at all your 18, you made the choice for yourself.
And well done for not keeping in contact any longer this guy obvs. dosent diserve you.
it may take time to move on but at least now your more prepared for the next relationship.
if you dont make any mistakes or have any regreats than you have nothing o learn from.
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