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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for three years and bi-curious for a year, he sweet and I love him a lot but sexually he doesn't satisfy i have to fake it should I let him know how I feel about women? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): I too have a boyfriend and when we have sex it really doesnt make me feel like I want! i do watch a lot of porn and I realize that I do like having the feeling or a girls touch and girls do understand how to feel you and touch you in just the right spots! I love my boyfriend but sexually im not pleased!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): If he is not sexually satisfying you as much as he did when you were first with him then yes you should deffinetley tell him about how you feel i am bisexual myself and i have told every guy i have ever been with that i was...it has in the past effected how much satisfaction i get out of sex. maybe test things out with a women and see how much you like that and this will confirm your curiousity of is it because you like women as well that you dont get enough pleasure out of being with your boyfriend. discuss it with him first though.
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (6 July 2008):
 If you've been with him for three years and you're not getting what you want there is definitely something wrong with your relationship. You need to start communicating better with your current guy about what you need and want physically from the relationship. You have a right to get your needs met.
You don't necessarily have to tell him that your sex life so far has been lousy, just that you think things need some improvement. Then work with him to get him to do things that will make it better for you. You KNOW you've got fantasies about what you WISH he would do to satisfy you. It's time to start sharing them with him. Open communication about sex can make things incredibly better ... for both of you.
Ease into that first and see how it goes. Once you've established a pattern of open and honest communication about sex within the confines of you current relationship, THEN it will be time to open up to him with the idea that you might be interested in trying sex with a woman. If you value your relationship with him at all, though, DON'T hit him with that before you've made a real effort to improve things with him and are communicating openly and honestly about your needs and wants. That will just hit him below the belt, and it will be impossible for you to cover up the fact that you're not getting all you want from your relationship with him.
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