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*essa_rox
writes: a boy at my school really likes me he is hot and all but he is a bad boy so what can i do to like him and dont fell scerd please help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Brooke123 +, writes (6 July 2008):
I understand how u feel, its hard when ur very attracted to someone but u know ther wrong for you. The thing is, if u know hes 'bad' then hes not going to be any good for you, you need to think that you only wnt someone the best, where u love everything about him, not just his looks! Think about it like this... Thers always someone better around the conner, so if this guys good looking, the next guy u like will be even better, the looks and the personality and will hopefully be good to you! :] x
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (6 July 2008):
In this case, I think your fear is a way of you telling yourself that this is NOT the guy that you should be spending your time with. You're worth a lot more than to waste yourself on a "bad boy". Look around again, and find somebody who will be good to you and good FOR you.
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reader, xxbaybeegal +, writes (6 July 2008):
Hey x
You know when you say bad...what type of bad way do you mean? like as in bad in his lessons or in general as in smoking, + taking drugs?
but anyway in a way its good not to get involved with bad boys because they make life much harder for you.
+ you cant really like you sort of have to have already liked him..because you cant just make yourself like someone..right?
And if you feel scared then theres no point of going out with him because the person you go out with should be someone that you can be comfortable around with, joke around with, be able to tell your feelings to and act completely happy around with.
but i mean its your decision but personally i wouldnt go out with him because im guessing that your 16/17 theres not really time for *going out with some for a month then he's dumped* sort of thing...you should get a man that you can spend the rest of your life with
gd luck hunni x
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