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I'm in such a rocky relationship, how do I smooth things over??

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Question - (6 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *roman writes:

Hey you guys I need some help now me and my girl have been together for 2 and half years I'm 18 and she's 17 now even though she wasn't my first I consider her my first love we fight alot And Have been separated 4 times since we been together but only for like a month each time we break up cause she accuses me of cheatin which I have but only cause I felt the love in the relationship was lost and there was no connection and also cause she accused me of cheatin so much I thought might as well since she already treatin me as if I had but eachtime we talk after we break up all the feelings come back and we get back and were good for like a month or 2 then things go sour again well we jus got back together after being separated for 2 months. And this time I want to prove to her that I love her and that she can trust me but she's already startin question everything I do and search my phone and I hate it how do I prove to her that she's my all and that I need her but at the same time I want her to trust me enough that she doesn't have to check up on me every second and keep tabs on me what do I do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

i never understood how a man can say that when he is accused of cheating, that he might as well do it. how can you do that? does love not mean anything to you? if my man did that to me, of course i would try and keep tabs on him as i have learned once a cheater always a cheater. although if my man did that to me i would kick his ass out of my life pretty damn quick. you two dont seem to have a very healthy relationship anyway. sorry to say.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2008):

starfairy agony auntSometimes relationships come to a natural end...It sounds like you guys are drifting that way. Unless there's something you feel is worth fighting for, but you both have to work at it...

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